Archive for February, 2010

Recycling Favorites

Sunday, February 28th, 2010

Each time I pull a cookbook out to look for a recipe, my side by side stacks get a little more wobbly. And because I like to live dangerously, there are a few little, weird, breakable items (an old ashtray, holding a crystal candle holder, holding paper clips, pennies, and a lonely earring) in the middle that threaten to fall and shatter. Today I decided that holding my breath each time I walked by that bookcase was just silly (and I was getting lightheaded), so I started removing, dusting, replacing and balancing the tilty piles.

Under Salad Days by Marcel Desaulniers, I found a book I bought several years ago: Poems Seven: New and Complete Poetry by Alan Dugan. Going right to the bookmark, I was, again, treated to poetry perfection.

Now I know what was calling me from the kitchen: It wasn’t the precarious pilings, but a poem unlike any other that brought me joy then, as it did again today.

Thesis, Antithesis, and Nostalgia

by Alan Dugan

Not even dried-up leaves,

skidding like iceboats on

their points down winter streets,

can scratch the surface of

a child’s summer and its wealth:

a stagnant calm that seemed

as if it must go on and on

outside of cyclical variety

the way, at child-height on a wall,

a brick named “Ann”

by someone’s piece of chalk

still loves the one named “Al”

although the street is vacant and

the writer and the named are gone.

Recycling Hot Flashes

Wednesday, February 24th, 2010

When I tell you I’ve tried everything to ease the menopause beast, you have to take me at my word.

I started the old fashioned and conventional way: an arsenal of prescription drugs. My first experience with my new anti-depressant left me unable to drive and drooling. My doctor said I had to give my body time to adjust: to what – catatonia? Back to the crawly skin and the hot flashes; drooling is not a good look for me.

My non-traditional efforts started with a weekend of pouring (all of) my pee into a gas-can-like container to be sent off (to Virginia, I think) for analysis. Then we (myself and my NEW doctor) worked on finding just the right combination of vitamins. The problem with this method is that you have to take take the vitamins, assess their usefulness, and then reevaluate: add some, take away others. An expensive little equation because, of course, vitamins (and most holistic doctors) are not covered by my insurance plan.

So I seem to have reached a detante (this is such a great post menopause definition) with my hormones and my body, but I’m left housing all of these unused and rejected vitamins. Most of them have expiration dates, making them easy to throw away, but what about the viable ones?

Since our wavyo bags are made out of recycled, post consumer plastics, perhaps there is something that can be done with my (and your) cabinet full of pre-consumer vitamins.

Any thoughts?

Recycling Dating Tips

Thursday, February 18th, 2010

There are some questions you should never ask. “When are you due?” is one and “Did you have a nice Valentines Day?” is another.

Valentines Day is a set up. With the addition, or omission, of a flower, a card, or a chocolate, the lonely feel lonelier, the unhappily coupled feel unhappier, and the lovebirds bask in their world of temporary euphoria.

For those of you looking for love, may I suggest sometime easy, inexpensive, and attainable? I’m talking about our new wavyo mini tote bag. For less than $20.00 you get a really smart-looking bag made out of recycled, post consumer plastics; the strategically placed message on the bottom of the bag, “your bag or mine?” is a conversation starter; and as you flash the message at a potential sweetheart, you can save yourself a lot of time (speed dating for greenies) and unnecessary alcohol consumption (well, there has to be an upside) by assessing his or her political persuasions!

You’re welcome and want to hear all of your success stories.

Recycling Technology

Monday, February 15th, 2010

I went to a social networking workshop last week, hosted by the Community Bank and facilitated by Leslie Fishlock: creater of Geek Girl - Empowering Women Through Technology, one Geek Girl at a time.  I left invigorated, inspired, and all fired up: I want to understand and be a part of this movement.

I write the wavyo blog for two reasons: one – to encourage people to visit our site frequently, and two – because I just love to link and write.

So what I learned from Leslie is that I’m doing one think right: I’m writing, and there is my/our beginning. What am I doing wrong? I’m not writing often enough; I’m not calling enough attention to our wavyo site; I’m not using all of the free social networking tools that are available to me.

So you that follow – be ready to share wavyo. I’m learning the ins and outs of the technology, and as I master these, I’m taking you with me.

Hopefully they still have room in the upcoming Geek Girl Camp. See you there?

Recycling Recipes

Saturday, February 13th, 2010

I’ve been reading The UltraMind Solution: Fix Your Broken Brain by Healing Your Body First and this guy (Dr. Mark Hyman) thinks I can eat my way to daily key location, size 8 jeans, sweet smelling elimination, and Doris Day moods.  Any system that promises to do these things, well, I’m in; or at least I think I am.

Unfortunately, I’ve learned that to fix my parts, I have to give up almost everything I love including ALCOHOL and CAFFEINE. Now I know I made some lofty resolutions, but they did not include sucking all the pleasure out of my eating day. Looks like I’m stuck with my poor memory, my Jessica Simpson jeans, my that-ain’t-right-but-everyone-does-it smell, and my UMS (ugly mood swings).

In celebration, I’ve taken my old watery, Weight Watchers, zero points, soup recipe and turned it into a glorious pot full of abundance. A bowl of this and a fishbowl full of Merlot – maybe I’ll just forget to weight myself.

And your resolutions?

After the Funeral

Sunday, February 7th, 2010

Walking and listening to old Terry Gross interview’s on my I-pod is such a treat. I’m never at home or in my car when Fresh Air is on, so I miss a lot of great radio. On this particular day, I was listening to Terry interview Rosanne Cash about her newest CD, “The List.

Thirty-five years ago, Rosanne’s father, Johnny Cash, gave her a list of what he considered the songs she absolutely had to, at least, be aware of if she was going to call herself a well educated musician; he called the list 100 Essential Country Songs.

I seldom choose to listen to country music, but after this interview, I couldn’t wait to hear (the first installment of) what Johnny Cash considered must-know country songs.

I’m enjoying the whole CD, but her interpretation of Motherless Children hit me like a fist to the gut. I’m sure it was because my brother-in-law just lost his mother. Dorothy E. (Lefevre) Sandlin was 90 years old and very sick, so her death was a blessing for her and the rest of the family.  By changing the word “dead” to “gone”, Rosanne Cash infused this sad song with even more longing, more sadness and more resignation than the original.  (Lucinda Williams (dead) – Rosanne (gone).

The wake and the funeral are over; unfortunately, the missing and the forever start now.